Ephesians 4:28
"Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need."
1 Corinthians 7:3-5
"The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control."
Lots of sex is a good thing.
It is not your body; it is theirs.
Your beauty is for him.
Your strength is for her.
The struggle to keep sex pure is a real problem you both have.
Like all things from God, when we enjoy something with love, humility, and gratefulness, it can be explosive!
God:
Confusing lust with being intimate is a deep rut. Leaving God out of sex is empty. Becoming one in body is easy; becoming one in body, soul, and spirit takes practice. The good news is you have a lifetime to practice.